Life consist of situations, decisions, choices and
consequences and all this for what- “happiness”
We might be ruled over or dominated or even influenced or
even emotionally controlled, at times, to make certain choices in different situations
and thereby to sustain its consequences. Don’t let yourself suffer that!
Yes, I will say that again- Don’t let yourself suffer that!
Our
lives are not just about us , they are a complex mix of so many people around,
our families, friends, people we fall in love with, people we have secret crushes
on , people who are in love with us and we aren't , those we admire and those
we hate but eventually it’s about “us” ! Whatever we do has a certain impact on
all of these people but ultimately who suffers or enjoys is “us”!
True happiness can come only by the choices we make- uninfluenced and uncontrolled
by any emotional trauma. Happiness which comes otherwise is only a satisfaction
which comes by the sacrifice of making others happy! We need to be able to differentiate in the
two.
People whom I talked about above, these are off course
important people but are they really going to be victim of the consequences?
No! They will just stand by you, with sad and sympathetic faces but it’s only you
who will suffer.
So, it’s essential to realize that the only person most important
in your lie is you yourself! Nobody else is going to face the eventual
outcomes. These people, it’s not their fault that they sense different
consequences and try to influence your decisions because they love you. But, it’s
equally important to realize that however deep they might love you, they may
not be the right people to help you make the crucial decisions of life! Sometimes,
there is nobody to think of your happiness because everyone is busy thinking of
the consequences, at that time, make sure, you stand up for yourself. Make sure
you do everything to save your happiness, irrespective of the consequences, irrespective
of influences.
Take the call, decide for yourself and experience the real
happiness – so what if it comes with a little consequence. At least it won’t be
the side effect of sacrifices!
Remember - Eventually its only about "you"!!
