If only, we could own
up our own heartaches and continued loving, no matter what it takes......, how long it goes......., where it finally lands........!!
We are scared- of loving! We are scared just before sending
that text full of emotions, we are scared to go out just in case the real heart
matters slip out of a watery tongue, we are scared to sip coffees together coz
we might talk out hearts out- and all this why? Because of “Heartaches”
Heartaches --- Ouch!
They come with every kind of love you know of! They will come and you
can’t just ignore them. So should we just stop loving and having a real life? I
don’t think so. Life is nothing devoid of love. Those butterflies in the
stomach on a slight rub of hands accidentally, that is life; the feeling of
caring for someone and getting the favor returned that is life; sharing nasty
details from poop timings to how shitty the boss is, that is real life. Should we just stop living then, just because
it will, at some point of time bring heartache along? I definitely don’t think
so!!
Hypothetically thinking, what if, we could just keep on loving
keeping the worries at bay? Will it not bring consequences? Off course it will.
You might have a hard time getting over it. You might even go on a sabbatical
full of undesirable thoughts and insomniac nights. But won’t you get to think
of the glorious butterflies then and smile a bit? Won’t you carry some
beautiful memories forever? Then why not drop the ‘Heartache Phobia’ aside and
live the moment- make the best of it!!
But wait, if you are already feeling too inspired by now,
here is a little reality check. “Do it at your own risk” If you think you are
man enough to deal with your heartache later on, then take the plunge because
the one giving you those butterfly memories won’t be there to cry along. If you
don’t think you are that kind of person- Sir, please leave right away! (But
anyway it’s not going to help you, sorry to say)
Any which ways this world and our lives should never be
short on love because this is the only thing which is our private yet shared.
Don’t let the heartache stop you from loving. Don’t kill those butterflies just
so soon!!
