Love Affair: Intellectual Affair: Sexual Affair
All three
mentioned above are different, trust me! They are far apart from each other and
distinctive too or exclusive in their own ways as I might put it!
We are humans and
all of us possess heart, brain and hormones. All these three are just there to
fulfill desires of each of them.
The sanest one
considered socially is the Love Affair. It’s the usual one as we all know it,
fall in love, feel emotional, feel attached, feel special, feel possessive,
feel every emotion you know for that one person with whom you are not really
scared to spend the rest of your life. Reciprocation is the key in this one and
we are not judged for carrying forward this one. We do it since we step into
teens and keep applying Trial & Error till we finally decide who that ‘one’
is. Generally this one ends on the note of marriage and there it goes away from
your life!
The next level
could be the Intellectual one. Here you don’t do anything. You just talk, just
let your heart out. But you talk in every possible way, you talk with mouth
(like normal people do), you talk with eyes (You can only do that if the other
person is really looking deep in your eyes & admiring them too for that matter),
you talk with heart and you don’t leave a thing behind in your heart or in your
nostalgic lanes for that matter. You talk society, you talk philosophy, you
talk of the stupid things you did as child and all those eve-teasing incidents
which still sit heavy on your heart. You talk sense (well, mostly) and
non-sense. You talk it all out and in return are being told that no matter how
childish you talk, you sound so mature! You hear too (sorry I forgot to add
that bit earlier) and you hear a lot. You hear things unsaid and you hear the
rhythematic oscillation of their heartbeats. You hear what they are going to
say next and you say it before they say it and that’s everything about this
sort of affair.
In the third one,
I don’t want to describe what happens but something surely happens which hasn’t
been happening so far.
It might be
possible that we have all three of these with one person or all three with
three different persons. It depends on the capability of those other people; but
if you are involved in all three of them, be assured you are capable of
something extra for sure! Your ten percent might be somebody’s 100% and their
100% might be 20% for you. So it’s totally okay to experience all of these-
‘individually’ & ‘exclusively’ with different people. As they say “Nobody is born perfect’ but
probably YOU were and then it became an equally annoying job to find somebody
as perfect as you..!! So go ahead.
PS- Started
writing something earlier but had to leave it in the middle, would just add
that patch here-
Sometimes we do what we
don’t want to do and yet we do it. Because it might be, that what we did, was
something we always wanted to do , but we thought, we didn't want to do it, coz
we thought we shouldn't (Social
Parameter Alert) do it!
Better to do what you want to do, coz we
are anyway not doing what we were supposed to do!
#Love_Peace_And_Happiness_To_All
